“At what age should I turn off parental controls on my son and daughter devices?”
According to the American Psychological Association (APA) parents should monitor children’s social media until they are at least 15. However, think that no two 15-year-olds are the same. Some 15-year-olds are mature enough not to need parental controls, while others need them for a bit longer. It is up to you to make a judgement call based on your children. Whatever you do, turn off the parental controls gradually, so your children can adapt to their new online freedom slowly. And keep talking to your children about their online life. Ideally, you want them to tell you who they talk to, what apps they are using, and if they are having any problems or worries. Having their trust always work better than trying to control them. Use opportunities to discuss about their online life whenever you are together, and the topic comes up on the radio or the TV.
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Love,
Ana
