Tips on Dealing with an Autistic Child as a Non-Parent?
“Do you have any tips on dealing an autistic child as a non-parent?”
I am not sure if you are the child’s stepparent or if you are related to him in any way. In any case, my advice is that you educate yourself about two things.
First, learn about autism. Knowing about autism will make you feel more confident when dealing with this child. As in everything in life, information is power. At REC Parenting, we have a section on neurodivergent children with free resources. I also recommend the book “Differently Wired” by Deborah Reber. It is packed with evidence-based and practical information about autism and other neurodivergent conditions.
Second, no two children with autism are the same. Get to know this child. Learn what he likes and dislikes, what makes him happy and what makes him stressed, what he likes and hates to eat…
Finally, parents of neurodivergent children, such as this child you mention, usually find parenting much tougher. So, as much as you can, take care of them as well. Do not let them feel judged, accept their child as he is, and reassure them that they are doing a good job.
Related articles:
How to Support a 12 Year-Old with Autism and ADHD
How to Support Working Parents of Neurodivergent Children
I hope this information helps. I wish you all the very best.
Love,
Ana
Qué fantástico artículo y que buenos consejos. Ha sido de una gran ayuda. Un abrazo muy fuerte
Maravilloso artículo sobre la serie Adolescentes y consejos de gran ayuda en una etapa tan complicada de nuestros hijos , tan desprotegidos frente a las nuevas tecnologías.Es una ayuda tremenda para nosotros. Muchas gracias
I'd imagine this is quite deteremental for a childs development in the long run as nothing stays the same forever, and we shouldn't really be making these categorisations, especially towards our children.
Just live life, sometimes you'll have to be the parent that's the shoulder to cry on. The week after you may have to raise your voice a little when everyone is in a rush and you're trying to get your children's shoes on.
Just balance it all out, don't be too self critical and pick up on what your child wants and needs.
Again, great writeup!
Thank you so much for your comment. I totally get what you mean. It is always difficult to have kids living with you, wanting to support them and their parents but at the same time not wanting to step in anyone's toes. If there's anything we can do to support you and your family, please do not hesitate to get in touch with us.
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sO great to have you here! Totally agree that Zara is great! What other topics would you like us to discuss?
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