Category: Babies & ToddlersQ&As

My Toddler Is Pulling Out Her Hair!

Published : Oct 30, 2025
By Dr. Ana Aznar

“Toddler pulling hair out assistance PLEASE! her little curls are nearly all gone and i don’t know what to do! she’s 3 years old”

xBlonde unhappy toddler girl, solving puzzle on a table, hard difficult task. Early education and developement. Little genius concept. Emotional.

There is a condition called trichotillomania that is diagnosed when a child has been pulling out their hair for enough time that there is significant balding or thinning. This condition is more common in children from the age of 10 and teenagers. It may also happen in young children and infants, although it is less common. In little kids, it is usually a short-lived concern and goes away on its own. 

Young children such as yours, often pull their hair to soothe themselves. They usually grow out of this behaviour without any long-term consequences. 

Whenever your daughter pulls her hair, do not give her a big reaction. Instead, try to redirect her attention. You can gently ask her to hold your hand or place her hand on a toy. You could also ask her to help you do something or ask her if she wants to read a book or build a puzzle together. 

If the situation persists and you are worried, take her to the doctor. 

I do hope this information helps. I totally understand it must be quite frightening and upsetting for you. I wish you both the very best. 

Love, 

Ana

Dr Ana Aznar

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