“My 11-month-old is very fussy and clingy, is this normal?”
Babies are born with their own temperament. Some are very easy, others are very fussy, and others are somewhere in between. Provided your baby is not in pain, hungry or has a wet nappy, it can be absolutely normal for an 11-month-old to be very fussy. However, if you are worried, talk to your doctor to discard any underlying health conditions.
In terms of him being clingy, this is also normal. It is not bad for children to be clingy (although I very well know that it is utterly exhausting). It is fact, a good sign that your child is clingy because that means that he has established a strong bond with you, which is fantastic for his development.
When will this stage finish? When he is ready to let go. There is nothing wrong with him being clingy. Some children need time alone while others want to be close to their mum or dad all the time. The key to remember is that all children go through development at a different pace. I can assure you that at some point he will let go of you and because you two have established a strong bond, he will feel secure to go out and explore the world, knowing that you will be there for him when he needs you.
I know that having a fussy and clingy baby is exhausting and can be incredibly frustrating. Let me know if you want to have a 1-2-1 session to discuss strategies that may help you going through this stage.
You may find these articles helpful:
When Does the Baby Clingy State End?
Can You Discipline a 1-Year-Old?
I wish you and your baby all the very best.
Love,
Ana
