How to Support my Child through the College Application Process?
“My son is going into high school and I wanted to know if there’s any extra stuff I should be doing at home/support should be giving academically, especially going into college applications, post–high school careers, etc., and he’s considering his entire future?”
It is a good idea to start having conversations early with your son about what he wants to do after high school: is he sure he wants to go to college? Which colleges would he like to apply to? What jobs/careers is he interested in? With this information he should start doing his research: what grades does he need? Does he need any kind of experience? Does he need any specific courses? Would it be a good idea to do an internship over the summer holidays? Where? How and when does he need to apply?
Make sure he is aware of the support his high school will provide and what support (if any) you will need to outsource.
In my experience, the college application process can be quite intense and draining. Ideally, your son should be the one driving the process. He should be the one pushing forwards while you are in the background supporting him.
You can also support him by encouraging him to keep a healthy life style. Support him so he eats and sleeps well, spends time outdoors, exercises, and spends time with friends and family. Remember not to tie his self-worth to his grades or the university offers he receives. I wish him all the best of luck!
Regards,
Ana
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